Clichés you should stop repeating to your children

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Let’s get straight to it…

1. “Money doesn’t grow on trees.” While it’s true that money doesn’t magically appear, this cliché can discourage creativity and limit one’s mindset when it comes to finding financial opportunities. It’s important to explore different avenues and think outside the box when it comes to making money.

2. “You can’t have your cake and eat it too.” This cliché implies that you can’t have everything you want in life, but it’s important to challenge this notion. With proper planning, prioritization, and hard work, it’s possible to achieve multiple goals and enjoy the fruits of your labor.

3. “Life isn’t fair.” While life may not always be fair, this cliché can lead to a defeatist attitude. It’s important to recognize that fairness is subjective and that you have the power to create your own opportunities and overcome obstacles.

4. “You’ll understand when you’re older.” This cliché dismisses the opinions and perspectives of younger individuals. It’s important to value the insights and experiences of people of all ages, as wisdom and understanding can come from various sources.

5. “It’s just a phase.” This cliché can undermine the validity of someone’s emotions or experiences. It’s important to acknowledge and address the challenges and changes that individuals go through, rather than dismissing them as temporary or insignificant.

6. “Boys don’t cry.” This cliché perpetuates harmful gender stereotypes and discourages emotional expression in males. It’s important to promote emotional well-being and encourage everyone, regardless of gender, to express their feelings in a healthy and authentic way.

7. “You’ll thank me later.” While parents often have good intentions, this cliché can dismiss or invalidate someone’s current feelings or experiences. It’s important to listen and validate others’ perspectives in the present, rather than assuming they will appreciate it in the future.

8. “You have to toughen up.” This cliché can discourage vulnerability and emotional growth. It’s important to embrace and express emotions, as it leads to better mental health and stronger relationships.

9. “You can’t teach an old dog new tricks.” This cliché implies that learning and personal growth are limited to a certain age. It’s important to recognize that learning is a lifelong process and that anyone can acquire new skills and knowledge at any stage of life.

10. “Just be grateful for what you have.” While gratitude is important, this cliché can discourage ambition and personal growth. It’s important to strive for more and set goals while still appreciating what you currently have.

Moustapha Kebe

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